Three keys to mastering modern dating life as a dude
Nikola Man
Everything you are about to read was written by my good friend Peter Pölzleithner. You can click on his name to check his Instagram page out. Without further ado, here is his take on what’s necessary for a healthy relationship:
Abundance: The concept of abundance refers to a perceived excess of resources – in contrast to scarcity, which refers to a perceived shortage of resources. These concepts have major implications on our everyday life. Any relationship chosen out of scarcity and not abundance is probably not a relationship you should be in! For heaven´s sake anything in life you chose, because you feel like you have to, is probably not something you should pursue. In fact, a choice made out of this perceived lack of resources is very likely to not bring you happiness! This concept applies to money, the professional world and especially to the selection of a partner for a relationship. Hence, starting a relationship from a point of mutual abundance (i.e. you and the girl enter the relationship, because you WANT to and NOT because you feel like you have to) is an incredible base for a successful relationship to develop!
Purpose: As a guy, having a purpose is quintessential to a fulfilled life. What could be a line straight out of a Youtube motivational video is the common consensus of most self-development teachings. Your life´s purpose can encompass just about anything from the worlds of business, fitness and spirituality. In my opinion, your purpose should always have a hard component (i.e. usually business related) and a soft component (i.e. more spirituality related). However, as a guy your main purpose should never ever under any circumstances revolve around a woman! If you make a woman your purpose, bad things are bound to happen! The girl will lose attraction, resentment will build up and you might find yourself in the infamous friend zone very quickly! Therefore adhering to your purpose is crucial to maintaining a healthy level of attraction while being in a relationship!
If you have the aforementioned factors in place, you consider marriage a viable option and your GF is awesome on top of it, just do not mess up the proposal!